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#10. Turning My Weekends Around: A Small Change That Made a Big Difference
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The Cherished Tradition
Thereās a nice little tradition in our work team.
We work remotely, from different cities and even countries. Every Friday, we have a social collab call where we chat about various topics and share personal stories - mostly non-work-related. The highlight of the call is a quick round of sharing our weekend plans.
Sometimes, the team shares their excitement about upcoming events - concerts, festivals, trips, or projects. But most of the time, the answers are familiar:
- Nothing special
- Decompressing
- Cleaning, laundry, or reading
Iāve often led in the ānothing specialā responses, which got me thinking: Iām given free time to spare. Why do I have no plans?
Why Donāt We Have Plans?
Without a plan, itās easy to do whatever feels good in the moment.
The thing is, our brainās primary task is survival. Conserving energy in case of emergency is part of that task.
So, if thereās no real need to do anything, we often devote our time and energy to passive entertainment: playing video games, watching TV, doom-scrolling, or hanging out aimlessly, hoping for the latest gossip.
If weāre given extended free time, like a vacation, weāll likely put effort into planning our entertainment - road trips, amusement parks, beach vacations, skiing, other projects, etc.
All great rechargers. But smaller opportunities often slip through the cracks.
The Importance of Planning Free Time
I hadnāt paid much attention to this until I came across a powerful quote from the Deep Work book by Cal Newport:
"Itās crucial that you figure out in advance what youāre going to do with your evenings and weekends before they begin."
It was like a cold shower. I stopped reading and did a quick math.
There are 168 hours in a week. Letās break down an average, non-holiday week:
- 40 hours for a full-time job
- 56 hours for sleep (am I being generous here?)
That leaves us with 72 hours.
Assuming we need about 6.5 hours daily for routines like eating, cooking, commuting, chilling, reading, and exercising, thatās 45.5 hours per week. Now think about it - 6.5 hours a day is just 90 minutes shorter than a workday.
After all that, we still have an impressive 24+ hours left each week.
Which means, if we donāt plan, weāre likely to end up without doing anything that could make our lives better or push us forward a little.
Crafting My Weekend Plan
So whatās changed for me? Hereās my rough plan for those 24 hours:
- Essential: 6-9 hours dedicated to this newsletter (yes, itās surprisingly time-consuming).
- Semi-essential: 4-6 hours for family and social activities. (I know, this should be a top priority, but Iām being honest. If thereās an emergency or deadline, I might have to dip into this time budget after all.).
- Non-essential: 3-5 hours for guilty pleasures like TV shows, YouTube, and other entertainment.
- Essential: 2-4 hours for house maintenance (by default, our environment tends toward entropy, so we need to maintain it.).
- Non-essential: 2-4 hours for learning something new.
- Non-essential: 2-4 hours for extra workouts.
This isnāt set in stone; if we take a weekend road trip, it is easy to reallocate time from other activities, starting from non-essential.
Sticking to the Plan
So now, on Friday nights, I spend 15 minutes crafting a weekend plan, just jotting down what Iād do after I wake up.
Not going to lie, sticking to the plan takes effort. But this is a topic for another story.
Till next time!
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