#10. Turning My Weekends Around: A Small Change That Made a Big Difference

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The Cherished Tradition

Thereā€™s a nice little tradition in our work team.

We work remotely, from different cities and even countries. Every Friday, we have a social collab call where we chat about various topics and share personal stories - mostly non-work-related. The highlight of the call is a quick round of sharing our weekend plans.

Sometimes, the team shares their excitement about upcoming events - concerts, festivals, trips, or projects. But most of the time, the answers are familiar:

- Nothing special

- Decompressing

- Cleaning, laundry, or reading

Iā€™ve often led in the ā€œnothing specialā€ responses, which got me thinking: Iā€™m given free time to spare. Why do I have no plans?

Why Donā€™t We Have Plans?

Without a plan, itā€™s easy to do whatever feels good in the moment.

The thing is, our brainā€™s primary task is survival. Conserving energy in case of emergency is part of that task.

So, if thereā€™s no real need to do anything, we often devote our time and energy to passive entertainment: playing video games, watching TV, doom-scrolling, or hanging out aimlessly, hoping for the latest gossip.

If weā€™re given extended free time, like a vacation, weā€™ll likely put effort into planning our entertainment - road trips, amusement parks, beach vacations, skiing, other projects, etc.

All great rechargers. But smaller opportunities often slip through the cracks.

The Importance of Planning Free Time

I hadnā€™t paid much attention to this until I came across a powerful quote from the Deep Work book by Cal Newport:

"Itā€™s crucial that you figure out in advance what youā€™re going to do with your evenings and weekends before they begin."

It was like a cold shower. I stopped reading and did a quick math.

There are 168 hours in a week. Letā€™s break down an average, non-holiday week:

- 40 hours for a full-time job

- 56 hours for sleep (am I being generous here?)

That leaves us with 72 hours.

Assuming we need about 6.5 hours daily for routines like eating, cooking, commuting, chilling, reading, and exercising, thatā€™s 45.5 hours per week. Now think about it - 6.5 hours a day is just 90 minutes shorter than a workday.

After all that, we still have an impressive 24+ hours left each week.

Which means, if we donā€™t plan, weā€™re likely to end up without doing anything that could make our lives better or push us forward a little.

Crafting My Weekend Plan

So whatā€™s changed for me? Hereā€™s my rough plan for those 24 hours:

- Essential: 6-9 hours dedicated to this newsletter (yes, itā€™s surprisingly time-consuming).

- Semi-essential: 4-6 hours for family and social activities. (I know, this should be a top priority, but Iā€™m being honest. If thereā€™s an emergency or deadline, I might have to dip into this time budget after all.).

- Non-essential: 3-5 hours for guilty pleasures like TV shows, YouTube, and other entertainment.

- Essential: 2-4 hours for house maintenance (by default, our environment tends toward entropy, so we need to maintain it.).

- Non-essential: 2-4 hours for learning something new.

- Non-essential: 2-4 hours for extra workouts.

This isnā€™t set in stone; if we take a weekend road trip, it is easy to reallocate time from other activities, starting from non-essential.

Sticking to the Plan

So now, on Friday nights, I spend 15 minutes crafting a weekend plan, just jotting down what Iā€™d do after I wake up.

Not going to lie, sticking to the plan takes effort. But this is a topic for another story.

Till next time!

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