Hello and welcome to your weekly dose of actionable (and occasionally provocative) things.
Our Yorkie turns 13 right around the time this edition lands in your inbox.
She recently had a less-than-successful landing from our bed, so my wife decided to upgrade her life with... dog stairs.
Yes, this is a real product. Search Amazon if you will.
Anyway, without proper research (more on this in the “Learn from my mistakes” section), she bought a pair. One for each bed.
Important notice: she bought them without my supervision!
They arrived compressed in shoebox-sized packages. Once the plastic wrap came off, they unfolded into two pretty large items.
Unfortunately, our Yorkie decided the slippery stairs were more dangerous than jumping off the bed itself.
So we ordered better ones and decided to return these.
My enthusiastic wife volunteered for the mission.
She carried both stairs into Amazon Returns at Whole Foods, where they explained that the items were oversized. UPS only.
Back into the car they went. It was 32°C (90+°F) outside.
At UPS, they confirmed the return was free.
One small problem: each stair needed its own box.
$24 per box.
The stairs cost $28 each.
At this point, you may assume I was glad I had not been assigned this mission.
You are correct.
I was at home eating an apple and waiting for my wife’s next move.
Which was what I would’ve done: bring those stairs back home and harass Amazon support for clarification on how a “free return” was supposed to work in this case.
Their response was slightly disappointing: “We’ve refunded the full amount. Keep the stairs. Sorry for the inconvenience!”
No more fun quests for my wife.
So now we own two fairly large dog staircases that our Yorkie refuses to touch.
How was your week?
Enjoy the edition!
Better Than Scrolling
Three new things to try this week. One is enough.
Last week’s challenge report:
One hour of silence each day.
Day 1: I woke up and spent an hour in bed watching a spinning ceiling fan (great invention, btw!). Torture.
Day 2: 63-minute walk with no phone or AirPods. Yeah, I cheated once. I had an urge to escape the office.
Day 3 onwards: I stuck myself in my office with nothing more than a pen and a notebook.
I started dumping things onto paper: a meal plan for the week, pros and cons of getting a whiteboard for the wall, what outdoor project I could still finish this year with little to no budget. And more...
Result? I guess I’ll keep doing it for now. Apparently, if I sit there long enough with nothing else to do, my brain eventually comes up with something useful.
Stop eating when I feel about 80% full.
I should’ve defined what 80% actually means. I’d heard about the Japanese practice but did not bother to understand it.
My relationship with food is complicated. I am always hungry. So I just made my meals a little smaller (my wife would happily challenge that claim) and stopped before my stomach got bloated.
No changes observed.
No sugar or sweeteners in any form.
I expected this to be the most challenging one. But a week without chocolate and cakes flew by. Thanks to cherry and peach season, perhaps.
Going to cook a cheesecake after I finish writing this. Half the sugar though, as always. Do not judge.
If you’re new here, Jakub is joining the weekly challenge from his penthouse in NYC. His efforts are documented here.
For the next week I picked:
Photograph daily one ordinary moment I want to remember.
Pick one thing I’d like a little less of in my life. I suppose it’ll be news, but let my next hour of silence decide.
Delete one app per day I never use. Mostly curious how many I can actually delete.
Report in a week.
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Learn From My Mistakes
Short story of how I break life chaos into small, solvable problems - 3 min read.

Somehow, I got inspired by a quick story about Elon Musk buying Twitter.
One engineer recalled: “We had worked on many new features for years, but no one ever made decisions about them. Suddenly, we had this guy making rapid decisions.”
This caught my attention because I can overthink almost anything.
So naturally, I hesitated to try fast decision-making.
Until a few weeks ago, when we booked a short family vacation.
Have you ever booked the first option you saw without checking the others?
Imagine:
You enter your search.
You get a ranked list of ten options.
You open the first one.
Then you book it without looking at number two.
That is exactly what we did!
We booked the whole thing in under 30 minutes. That included deciding what actually mattered and feeding it to ChatGPT to search.
Our requirements were reasonable:
No sargassum.
No children on the property. I did not even know this was an option until my wife demanded it.
Private jet for the round trip.
All-inclusive.
No cheap Veuve Clicquot at breakfast. Cristal only.
No longer than 30 days.
Maximum $300 per person for the whole thing, including flights.
ChatGPT 5.6 made fun of me until I loosened a few of the non-negotiables and increased the budget slightly.
It then produced a ranked list.
We opened the first option.
I turned to my darling with one question: “What is wrong with this one?”
She went through it properly and still couldn’t find anything wrong.
It met every real requirement, including the very new to us “minimum age is 18”.
Nothing was wrong.
So we booked it.
My darling made one honest attempt to continue the search: “Can we at least look at one more?”
But why?
She did not have a reason.
“There might be something better” did not count. That sentence has already cost me several days of my life previously.
I refused to open another option without knowing exactly what was wrong with the first one.
She understood that the choices were now “book it” or “discuss it for another month”.
It was non-refundable, so the trip could no longer be postponed.
She wisely ended the discussion there.
Later that day, I realized I had made an expensive decision in under 30 minutes.
This was new.
No comparison.
No hesitation.
No sleeping on it.
And, surprisingly, no regret.
Normally, finding a good option only makes me look for another one.
During the past year, I spent hours comparing:
Mac Mini vs. MINISFORUM UM790 Pro vs. UM890 Pro vs. Beelink SER8 for a home server.
Strongbox vs. 1Password vs. Apple Passwords.
Ninja DZ550 vs. Ninja AF101 vs. Bella Pro air fryers.
The air-fryer research was especially useful because I eventually bought a Cosori TurboBlaze.
It was on a flash sale.
But with the vacation, we skipped all of that.
Will we regret it after the vacation?
Maybe.
Maybe not.
Even after comparing ten resorts, the answer would still be: maybe.
We get to test only ONE.
More research might improve the choice. It never stops me from questioning it.
So now, before I open option two, I am trying to ask one question:
What is actually wrong with option one?
Till next time.

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Our favorite digital finds
Tools, apps, and services that actually deliver
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I do not need more book recommendations at this moment of my life. I do, however, enjoy finding out which books dozens of smart people independently recommended, so here we are.
Short & Sweet
Short articles worth your attention
Herbert Simon called it “satisficing”: decide what is good enough, pick the first option that meets the standard, and stop researching. Apparently, this often makes people happier than finding “the best”. Fun fact: I found this article after writing the “Learn from My Mistakes” section. Perfect timing, as usual. Message me if you cannot access it.
How to Rescue an Overloaded Organization - 7 min read.
Some companies treat permanent crisis as proof that everyone is working hard. This article explains why overloaded teams do not necessarily need more people.
Good news for anyone who has stared at a page for five minutes while thinking about lunch (me!). Mind wandering hurt people’s immediate performance in this study, but helped them notice repeating patterns without realizing it.
Add this to your shelf
If you're looking for something to read, this book's worth considering
This book looks at why talking to strangers is surprisingly good for us. Gillian Sandstrom uses psychology research to show how even short conversations can improve your mood and make you feel more connected. Breaking news: talking to people may actually be useful.
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A Workspace I Envy
A handpicked desk setup that caught my eye this week

Apparently, a desk setup can still be just a desk and a chair.
No screens.
Welcome to the future of productivity.
Behind the Persona
A deep dive into the quirks, habits, and backstories that shape icons
Brad Jacobs has built several (!) billion-dollar companies. He founded United Waste Systems and United Rentals, built XPO, and later started QXO. He also wrote How to Make a Few Billion Dollars. Fair enough.

Cool Facts About Brad Jacobs
One Company at a Time: In 2022, Brad Jacobs said, “I only do one thing at a time.” He has built several large companies, but concentrates on one major company-building project at a time.
Fifteen Private Interviews: Before buying a company, Jacobs interviews about 15 senior employees for 60 to 90 minutes each. Would you buy it with your own money? What would you change? What would a new owner be crazy to change?
What Should Never Change?: After an acquisition, employees are asked three questions: what should never change, what is not working, and what would you improve?
A Name Beside Every Task: During an acquisition integration, every task goes to one person. Some items are checked daily or more often. “The team” is not an owner.
Devices Off: In Jacobs’s important meetings, devices are shut down, one person speaks at a time, and side conversations are not allowed.
Board Members Skip the Presentation: Directors read the materials beforehand, then question 10 to 20 employees and managers from different levels of the company.
A Long Shot Still Gets a Number: Jacobs assigns probabilities to major initiatives. A likely result might get 90 percent; a long shot might get 10 or 20 percent, along with high, low, and most likely outcomes. I am trying to apply it to everything in my life. Nothing is certain.
The Forecast Has a History: Jacobs said his companies update budgets every day. When a manager repeatedly missed forecasts by 3 to 5 percent over three years, later projections were adjusted for that record.
Cut the Loss: When numbers and feedback show Jacobs that a decision was wrong, he admits it, cuts the loss, and acts.
Half-Good Managers: Jacobs uses this phrase for executives who can grow revenue but cannot control costs, or control costs but cannot grow revenue. He looks for people who can do both.
Watch-worthy clips
One video that got us thinking, and we think you'll like it too
If you’ve ever researched a big decision and still had no idea what to do, this is worth watching. L.A. Paul explains why some choices are so hard to predict: the experience itself can change what you care about. It reminded me of the observer effect in physics: sometimes the act of measuring something changes it. Here, the thing that changes is you.
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